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爱情离开后,念念不忘是最无用的遗物

我们都觉得,收复钓鱼岛有两条路,一是派出我们的城管大部队,二是派黑子女友张小淼那样的女侠组个团去。

老虎机娱乐同是大学辅导员,黑子和很多老师一样,监考时都避免不了鸡飞狗跳,而张小淼监考的考场却鸦雀无声。在学校四大“阎王”监考官里,张小淼名列榜首。

黑子住的房间楼上漏水,冲花了黑子的卧室。屋主正在外地出差,电话里说请黑子自行修理,回来全款报销。黑子请了三天假,陪着小工修了三天,花七百块钱修好了。结果屋主却不认账。张小淼知道了,找到那人的工作单位,当着他众同事的面客客气气有理有据地和他谈了三分钟。那天张小淼还没走到家,一千块就打到了黑子的账上。

黑子已经习惯了仰视张小淼。作为一个内向了二十几年的文科男,在强势的张小淼面前,他常常有种错觉:世界是张小淼的,张小淼是他的。这让他很知足。他觉得她像他小时候于烈日下擎在头顶的那片海芋叶,是他的一角天空。

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其实看似强悍的张小淼,是个心里揣着很多温柔的姑娘。她喜欢小孩,喜欢植物,也喜欢小动物。

张小淼会固定地去喂院子里的流浪猫,后来那几只流浪猫都能认出黑子和张小淼的脚步。有一次,一只猫想来蹭张小淼,张小淼总是飞快地一巴掌抽在凑过来的猫头上,那猫惨叫一声,便率领众猫飞奔而去。张小淼淡淡地跟黑子说:“以后如果你自己来喂猫,喂完也记得打它一下。如果你不能收养它,就不要让它太依赖人,让它保持戒心,以免以后惨遭伤害。”那一刻黑子有些心惊,心里柔软又唏嘘。

老虎机娱乐张小淼对黑子,有时很温柔,有时又很暴躁。

温柔的时候,黑子说什么都好,她笑起来的时候,眼睛像最温柔的月牙。

暴躁的时候,她像一串待点的炮仗,黑子不知道哪句话就切到了她的燃点。

老虎机娱乐俩人去看电影,张小淼问黑子看哪一场。黑子说随便。张小淼一下就在排着的队伍里炸开了。“有哪场电影叫随便?随便随便,哪来那么多随便?一个大男人一点主见都没有!”

老虎机娱乐俩人去一家餐厅吃东西,上来的菜都不好吃。黑子的宗旨是多一事不如少一事,能忍就不要出声。当黑子埋头默默吃饭的时候,坐他对面的张小淼又炸开了,吼道:“表情那么痛苦做什么?不好吃你就说啊!不好吃就是不好吃,你低头不说话它就会好吃了吗?就不觉得委屈自己吗?你这样的人生有意义吗?”张小淼骂着骂着眼圈都红了。黑子蒙了,不就吃个饭,为什么能上升到人生意义的高度?

后来,黑子才明白,张小淼骂他的时候是把她自己也代入了。

黑子向张小淼提过很多次见家长和结婚的事,张小淼都没有答应。直到最后,张小淼竟提出分手。

老虎机娱乐黑子一下就急了,马上表态再也不提结婚的事了,什么时候她想好了什么时候结。

但张小淼就要分手,说自己和黑子并不是一路人。

张小淼辞职去冰岛旅行了。黑子给她发的短信,她不回,电话也不接。

老虎机娱乐张小淼离开的那段日子,黑子反常得像精神紊乱。

他素来喜静,最怕人多和热闹。失恋的第一个月,却拉着朋友去酒吧玩,结果喝醉摔了个鼻梁骨折。伤还没全好,黑子又加入了个同城驴友团,周末跟驴友们去穿越秦岭,结果爬到半路他就迷路了。有人把这件事发到了同城微博,引发全城关注。救援队跑去搜救到大半夜,他的照片还上了报。

因为张小淼短信不回,电话不接,黑子便写了很多邮件给她,问她好不好。

老虎机娱乐很久以后,张小淼只回了他一封。信里只有一句话,张小淼说:黑子,最无用的是念念不忘,去走你自己的路吧。

全系的学生都知道黑子老师失恋了,那个女侠客一样的张小淼张老师离开他去了冰岛。有个学生给黑子写了封匿名信。那个学生和张小淼是一个地方的人,住在同一个工厂的居民小区里。张小淼的故事,他们全小区的人都知道。

老虎机娱乐张小淼和邻居男孩是青梅竹马,但那男孩的妈妈自恃家庭条件好,一直看不上张小淼家。张小淼和男孩在上大学时还是好上了,偷偷在一起了很多年。男孩妈妈有所耳闻,逼问男孩,男孩沉默不语,她便跑去对张小淼爸妈说了很多难听的话。张小淼听说后,一怒之下就跟男孩分了手,并留在母校西安大学当了辅导员。心意黯然的男孩在去冰岛旅行时出了意外,冻坏了双腿,在当地的医院里趁人不备自杀了。男孩的两次懦弱,造成了张小淼青春里不能磨灭的伤口。

黑子不再把张小淼挂在嘴上了。在张小淼离开他的两个月后,他开始有条不紊地规划生活。上班、下班、考研、跟着美食软件学做饭、小心地侍弄花草。黑子上完研究生后还主动辞职出去应聘,先后辗转过几个公司,做过不同职位,现在是一家公司的副总。

那几年,朋友们都发现他脾气变了很多,他不再是以前那个没有原则的老好人,不愿意的事情开始会说不,遇到不公平不合理的事情也会态度坚决地要求更正。

我们都以为黑子渐渐把张小淼忘了的时候,收到了他俩的结婚喜帖。

看看站在酒店门口的那对璧人,他们都被时光改变了,一个变得温润柔和,一个变得伟岸可依。

婚礼上,大屏幕上循环播放的那些他们爱情细节的照片里,有一张翻拍的旧照片,是黑子站在一堵花墙前的温柔凝视,旁边写着:“冬天的痛过去,花会在春天开好。张小淼,如果你走过来,请别忘记我在春天等你。”

黑子说过:“变得勇敢和强大一点,因为总会爱上一个人。只有勇敢和强大一点,才能保护你爱上的人。”

老虎机娱乐我们都在为所爱之人学习勇敢。因为曾经路过她的冬天,所以,想要给她最美的春天。

老虎机娱乐爱情离开后,念念不忘是最无用的遗物。如果我不能在途经爱情后成为一个更好的自己,我就辜负了那一场爱情。

你有我来不及参与的过去,我也有你无法触及的疼痛。如果我爱你,我在这里,等你涉过所有疼痛的河流,向我温暖的怀抱走来。

因为爱过你,我就应该成为这世间更懂得爱更珍重爱的人。

这就是,我爱你的意义。

千万人之中,不早不晚,恰巧,你也在这里。

老虎机娱乐愿它能陪你在爱的路上勇敢前行

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